By Vincent Arinze Jideofor
Whenever I post this, I get attacked by some ladies, but I will not stop posting it.
You are a woman and in no way disabled. If from birth till the age of thirty five, no man has come to ask “is it for sale”or “how much”, check yourself. It is very obvious that something is wrong with you and it could be ancestral, attitudinal or spiritual. But I have noticed that it is often more attitudinal than hereditary or spiritual.
Stop allowing prayer contractors to eat from your ignorance. Stop attending all those “I must marry” programs in churches. The best thing you can do for yourself is to tell yourself the truth this once, make a change in your style of talking, walking, eating. Are you surprised Chief says your eating style could be the problem? When you hang out with him and decide to eat everything available for his pocket to be empty; when you fight and complain because the food being passed around isn’t getting to you early enough; when you attend parties with extra carrier bags for the small chops and drinks…he is watching.
What about your fashion sense? I am sure you need to do something about it. Stop appearing too spiritual and holy; he wants a girl who can add some spark to it.This is not a license for indecency; you can cover up your body, wear very long dresses and pants and still look sexier than those in shorts; its more about the curves and knowing what fits. Avoid wearing it because it is in vogue; wear it because it fits perfectly.
If you talk to people the way you should, walk and dress well, have your etiquette intact, and fear God and at the end of the day you are where you are, then turn to God. But mind you; God can only fight for you when your obedience is complete.
I did not say if you are not married before thirty five; I said if by thirty five no one has come to ask for your hand in marriage, something is wrong with you.
Its another Christmas, may he find you!