Marriage is not a do-or-die affair or a guarantee of happiness or a secured future.
Singleness also has its own benefits while it lasts, but some ladies would rather remain in an abusive relationship or courtship just because they believe they are running out of time and that age is no longer on their side.
Ladies approaching their late 20s and reaching 30 or even 40 think that it should not be heard that they do not have a boyfriend or suitor. Come on, ladies, don’t be deceived by any man that you’re getting old without children. There are kids out there who want a mother; you can adopt and still live a happy life. Don’t be deceived that your beauty will fade away once you clock a certain age, these are lies!
Getting married is not a guarantee you will make it to heaven; we are all going to die, and we won’t possibly remember our families we left here on earth.
In fact, there are opportunities for you to engage in, such as further studies, volunteering in social activities that are beneficial to other people, among others. You get to make connections without limiting yourself.
In fact, why most men want you to marry so quickly is because they are scared of the woman you shall become without them.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t marry, but don’t be pressured by what people say. As you achieve a level of success without a man, you will realize how much you don’t need a man to be happy. Please, ladies, live your life for you.
My humble submission 